I’ve been feeling that the blog has been a bit vanilla lately so I decided to put out a question that has been on my mind the past little while. This is only because a friend recently had his bachelor party and I was told that all the guys going received a firm lecture from the women in their lives beforehand. Oh ya and also, I was at the Brass Rail Tavern on Sunday and a friend bought me a lap dance. We were in a group and they thought it would be cute. I’m a good sport, so I went along with it. Pretty girl, great dancer. And learning what her rules were “You can touch everything but (fill in blank)” as well as viewing the dances that were going on around me, I’d have to say, yes. It kinda is cheating. It all depends on your comfort level I suppose. I personally would not be comfortable if my boyfriend or husband paid some beautiful girl to dance up on his lap while he was allowed to touch everything but (fill in blank). I think it would be kinda cool if a couple went in together. But as far as I am concerned, go to the strip club, look alllll you want. But if you’re coming home to me, please refrain from private dances in dark rooms where you are allowed to touch at all. Thoughts?